tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post1858236725026094661..comments2023-05-05T02:20:39.892-07:00Comments on Cryptic Language and Vague References: WreckOriginal Mohomiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05220176833570828412noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-22659768073040604352010-09-25T11:00:56.506-07:002010-09-25T11:00:56.506-07:00A mutual friend posted this on Facebook:
Ponderin...A mutual friend posted this on Facebook:<br /><br />Pondering loss of loved ones. By death, the loss is complete, final, abrupt, but loving memories remain & comfort. By rejection, the loss is hurtful, creates a void, damages will, and memories haunt. Both are painful, expected, & part of our mortal experience. Ultimately, whether it hardens or softens our souls is up to us.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11768108025134892093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-52104458018835033652010-09-23T10:15:37.049-07:002010-09-23T10:15:37.049-07:00I'm so sorry! I've been single for all but...I'm so sorry! I've been single for all but 9 months of my life, and that relationship was like 3 years ago. I wish I had the experience to give you meaningful advice.<br /><br />However, I would LOVE to join you for a session of JIM. They will be having one in November here in Houston, and I've actually considered going for the same reasons you have described here. I need a buddy to go with me though. Maybe we can have a group holding session in our cabin one night. ;)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01226208429329312021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-22809750242202485592010-09-23T10:15:28.080-07:002010-09-23T10:15:28.080-07:00OMOH + Clint, now that's a ticket I could vote...OMOH + Clint, now that's a ticket I could vote for. I'd totally buy you guys kitchen gadgets.MoHoHawaiihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15086670779804942122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-87527320117936936292010-09-23T09:17:43.250-07:002010-09-23T09:17:43.250-07:00Genio, thanks.
Clint, wanna be my rebound? We co...Genio, thanks.<br /><br />Clint, wanna be my rebound? We could totally arrange that... ;-)Original Mohomiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05220176833570828412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-90024093595802220962010-09-22T19:39:06.092-07:002010-09-22T19:39:06.092-07:00I'll put in a vote for Atlanta. ;-)I'll put in a vote for Atlanta. ;-)Clinthttp://clintmartin.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-80124504992968065592010-09-22T15:23:22.595-07:002010-09-22T15:23:22.595-07:00Breakups hurt. To me, three months seems like a lo...Breakups hurt. To me, three months seems like a long time. Given the events surrounding this one, I'd say you're more than justified in feeling this way. Hope things get better for you soon.El Geniohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02801064758712821345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-17765247080406556902010-09-22T13:29:57.352-07:002010-09-22T13:29:57.352-07:00Max, good, 'cause I may show up on your doorst...Max, good, 'cause I may show up on your doorstep this week. Looking to make a fresh start somewhere on spare change. How's your neck of the woods these days? ;-)Original Mohomiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05220176833570828412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-17324429023502720892010-09-22T13:27:28.549-07:002010-09-22T13:27:28.549-07:00Love you, OMO. If we lived near each other I would...Love you, OMO. If we lived near each other I would bake you cookies and snuggle on the couch to help you feel better.Max Powerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14955796304197971564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-38761189241976204482010-09-22T13:26:49.117-07:002010-09-22T13:26:49.117-07:00fff, also lovely, thanks.
Hawaii, I think there&#...fff, also lovely, thanks.<br /><br />Hawaii, I think there's a lot wrapped up in my emotions around this, and I thought we were taking it fairly easy, but there was also a sense of urgency injected into it, with my impending move and his initial uncertainty, which probably accelerated the emotional investment a bit more than would otherwise have happened. But also, we just "clicked" from the beginning. Nonetheless, we took it relatively slow: a date, then a break for a couple of weeks, an evening and most of a day the next weekend, an evening a couple of days later, another break, then a couple of dates a week, with 3-4 weekends thrown in. Physical intimacy was restrained.<br /><br />The relationship developed maybe a <i>bit</i> fast for some, but nothing extraordinary, I don't think.<br /><br />Anyway, I think your counsel is generally wise.Original Mohomiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05220176833570828412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-27465256768570266042010-09-22T13:19:29.144-07:002010-09-22T13:19:29.144-07:00This stuff is painful. Time does make it better, b...This stuff is painful. Time does make it better, but knowing that is no consolation now.<br /><br />I advocate a slow approach to dating. If you had a three-month relationship whose breakup devastates you, it's probably a sign that you went a bit fast. In retrospect, you probably should have taken a year to get to the point where you were. This is for self-protection, but it has other benefits as well. I think the slower pace lessens the chance of all kinds of problems.<br /><br />Try not to be discouraged. You will love again.MoHoHawaiihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15086670779804942122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-40517526496855855862010-09-22T12:46:56.068-07:002010-09-22T12:46:56.068-07:00are we sharing performances of music!?
Well i...are we sharing performances of music!? <br /><br />Well i'm going to go ahead and promote an asian kid! <br /><br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uo6cXzzhV9s&feature=related" rel="nofollow"> Piazolla's Oblivion- bandoneon & piano </a><br /><br />This is what I like to listen to/play. (on piano/accordion) <br /><br />i have a bandoneon... but its ridiculously hard and make me want to cry.paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14837646999916990755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-14015692093801313102010-09-22T12:35:43.691-07:002010-09-22T12:35:43.691-07:00Favoritenic, gorgeously emotive. Thanks.
Playa, ...Favoritenic, gorgeously emotive. Thanks.<br /><br />Playa, I definitely lack experience with "officially dating" relationships. But I've also had pretty intimate or longer-term relationships we just didn't label as relationships with a couple of girls and a few other guys, so a lot of these feelings are familiar in some way. This was just...the most significant one so far for me, and the most hopeful for an actual future. I realize I may look back and wonder how I could have been so bent out of shape over it, or such a boob at my ripe old age, but only time will tell, I guess.Original Mohomiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05220176833570828412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-23293560743938840432010-09-22T12:28:10.199-07:002010-09-22T12:28:10.199-07:00You lack experience. It sucks, true, but isn't...You lack experience. It sucks, true, but isn't fatal. <br /><br />Actually, you don't lack experience with failed relationships as much as it was denied you but that is neither here nor there. Feel better!playasinmarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05998841658611428960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-41150167602664794752010-09-22T12:04:18.452-07:002010-09-22T12:04:18.452-07:00Silly me. Here's a youtube link of an impecca...Silly me. Here's a youtube link of an impeccable performance.<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kwvyFAkjogAfavoritenichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079657249856080575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-26410114658221256392010-09-22T12:01:30.586-07:002010-09-22T12:01:30.586-07:00I listen to (or play this) this when I'm feeli...I listen to (or play this) this when I'm feeling like "home" isn't near enough to reach. May it offer what words cannot.<br /><br />Rachmaninov's Cello Sonata, Op. 10, mvt. iii. Andante.favoritenichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079657249856080575noreply@blogger.com