tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post1965707135292690644..comments2023-05-05T02:20:39.892-07:00Comments on Cryptic Language and Vague References: Match SchmatchOriginal Mohomiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05220176833570828412noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-33953996764777206532011-01-28T15:38:41.134-08:002011-01-28T15:38:41.134-08:00To be honest, if my honey pie and I took compatibi...To be honest, if my honey pie and I took compatibility tests, I wouldn't be surprised at terrible results...<br /><br />Plus, the problem with that stuff is that you don't stop growing and changing after you enter a relationship.<br /><br />For example, my sweet heart married an ex-Mormon flirting with atheism and definitely not particularly sweet on the LDS Church. Now he's had to deal with me scratching the "ex" in front of the Mormon (at least emotionally and socially) who's attending Church regularly, reading the Book of Mormon and has given up coffee, tea and alcohol. And he hasn't been happy about it.<br /><br />But our relationship and our love continues to grow; it acquires depth and beauty every time we have to struggle with some new "incompatibility."<br /><br />So compatibility schmompatibility.John Gustav-Wrathallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03557940681381951271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-73702018885023866752011-01-28T11:16:41.786-08:002011-01-28T11:16:41.786-08:00"...why I'm focusing on being happy and c...<i>"...why I'm focusing on being happy and content as a single man."</i><br /><br />This presupposes that disagreement (or <i>lack of agreement</i>, which isn't <i>necessarily</i> the same thing) on religious matters necessarily precludes a happy relationship.<br /><br />Maybe it does... But that would depend on <i>how important</i> religion (and agreement about religion) is to you and the potential partner.<br /><br />I certainly have my own views about religion and spirituality that may or may not be compatible with another person's views--but I also don't care a whole lot about another person's views on spirituality, as long as they're willing to be similarly apathetic about mine.Scott Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10650693452554752386noreply@blogger.com