tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post856801698401896352..comments2023-05-05T02:20:39.892-07:00Comments on Cryptic Language and Vague References: To Whore Or Not To WhoreOriginal Mohomiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05220176833570828412noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-8824788132216037732008-02-09T13:08:00.000-08:002008-02-09T13:08:00.000-08:00I had a hard keeping myself from laughing. I must...I had a hard keeping myself from laughing. I must have complete blinders on or I am just not hanging out with the right people. Most likely it's because I am the most oblivious moho around. Who are these people and their lip slutiness? I'm sure I know them and some of them are my friends but I am completely in the dark.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I appreciate your thoughts and input into the world of mohoness. For the record, I am a lip virgin. No slutiness here but I'll take your word that it exists.<BR/><BR/>Later,<BR/><BR/>RichRich Winsorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08649317901985409012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-86432745435613244982008-02-09T08:49:00.000-08:002008-02-09T08:49:00.000-08:00Chedner, I like Sputnik. It works. And no, it's ...Chedner, I like Sputnik. It works. And no, it's not crystal clear. We don't actually have any HD devices or cable. Blast.<BR/><BR/>Vanson, I also hope it doesn't take you 10 years. But, I try to enjoy and/or appreciate the learning process along the way...<BR/><BR/>Mar, yeah, fun cycle eh?<BR/><BR/>ImpossibleK, heh, the inner prude? There's not much inner about my prude. Mine's been annoyingly front-and-center. I've locked him up from time to time, only briefly... But President Hinckley said we needn't be prudes, so I'm taking that to heart. ;-)<BR/><BR/>Borealis, I appreciate your perspective. Is this the first time you've commented on my blog? I've wondered if you would...<BR/><BR/>In any case, I did rediscover the rewards of friendships after the particularly flingy romantic "thing", and I realized how much more those relationships mean to me than any passing fancy. But the idea of having a relationship that was BOTH intimate, built on commitment and active love, and physically intimate and exhilarating...it's amazing. Time will tell...<BR/><BR/>And no, I don't mean "time will tell" as in "I'm waiting for life to drop a relationship in my lap" but as in "I'm figuring things out one by one, and we'll see where that leads, where I decide to take it, in time..."Original Mohomiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12887614143300677214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-90443909849756162092008-02-07T09:31:00.000-08:002008-02-07T09:31:00.000-08:00What you can have is better than what you want. Re...What you can have is better than what you want. Remember that always, my friend. <BR/><BR/>Also, experience is overrated. Don't assume your inexperience will be comical to the other person. In my lip-slutting days (which didn't last very long, but still...) there was a guy I kissed a few times who was lots of fun and very cute, and then we started kissing and it was all this... Well, I won't describe it in detail, but the way it felt was that he was giving a performance. My face was the stage, he was the performer, but *I* was the audience, not a participant. I felt like he wanted applause afterwards. For something that's the ultimate two-person endeavor, it felt oddly but completely one-sided. And for the same reason, it wasn't very enjoyable for me.<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, while I had shockingly little experience, and still do except with my wife, I got quite a few compliments on my kissing. (Of course you can take that with a grain of salt, as I did at the time, and still do.)<BR/><BR/>None of that kissing, I hasten to add, even when it was enjoyable (and it was, I won't deny it!) didn't really provide the kind of satisfaction and joy I have with my close, close friends. It's better. So when I'm horny or needy or lonely, I think of those friendships and the joy they've brought me, and I remember: what I can have (righteously) is better than what I want (in my needy moments).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-8339994746968199272008-02-06T18:41:00.000-08:002008-02-06T18:41:00.000-08:00Chedner's right. Size isn't everything. Heck, a mo...Chedner's right. Size isn't everything. Heck, a month ago, I thought I could do without TV entirely... I don't envy yours though, and I really don't "get" the whole lovesac thing... for several reasons. HDTV is not reality. Remember that.<BR/>Also:<BR/>Learn to love the inner prude, dude. It's a virtue, not a vice.The Impossible Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14085185367011832570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-25562914958006742262008-02-06T16:54:00.000-08:002008-02-06T16:54:00.000-08:00I hear ya, brother. The only thing that saved me f...I hear ya, brother. The only thing that saved me from my own gay adolescence is the inability to enjoy even the thought of physical intimacy that doesn't include some established emotional connection (ie meaningful relationship). And yet, sometimes the only immediate reason for wanting that kind of connection is to satisfy sexual desire. go figure..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-14696491303784661202008-02-06T05:59:00.000-08:002008-02-06T05:59:00.000-08:00I agree in a sense. It's hard to not have thoughts...I agree in a sense. It's hard to not have thoughts when seeing an attractive guy. <BR/><BR/>I do think it is possible to have meaningul monogamous relationships that are good and healthy. I was in one from May of 07 till the end of January... and he was even in Kosovo for 4 of those months. However, I decided to take a step back, and figure out my position and feelings with the Church before I became even more committed or decide that I want to be celibate.<BR/><BR/>Hopefully it doesn't take me 10 years to figure out :(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01226208429329312021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6450854270080513022.post-22574779343792934832008-02-06T01:17:00.000-08:002008-02-06T01:17:00.000-08:00Well, Sputnik (I'm going to call you 'Sputnik' fro...Well, Sputnik (I'm going to call you 'Sputnik' from now on, cool?)... I don't know if I would say that your TV could really be considered "crystal clear" -- I also have my doubts about the "HDTV" part...<BR/><BR/>It is big, I'll give you that, but size really isn't everything...chednerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14963974112297032614noreply@blogger.com